If I am santa claus, my present would be making sure that every day will be x'mas. Present is a gift you have now. Appreciate present, not the past nor the future. Let the present make you happy.
Hohoho...let the festive mood kick in!
Monday, 14 December 2009
my room
Dear Santa,
I would like to introduce you to my room. In my room, you can find dust, bio waste, empty bottles, waste papers, plastic bags, unwashed clothes and many other junks scattered all around the limited area of 22 meter square. For many this represents untidiness, irresponsiblity and even portrays a messy lifestyle. My room, my mess...
The pringles and toblerones on the corner table and the dumb bells laying motionless on the floor defines the 2 aspects of my life. The junk food is the unwanted distractions whereas the dumb bells are the heavy task awaiting me to accomplish. There must be something very wrong when you have many tasks ahead but you felt very relaxed.
Mummy said to me many times, fold your blanket after you wake up. Such small details in your daily routine will ultimately shape your future being. It is a healthy habit called discipline. Living alone, cooking alone, eating alone, working alone, every thing alone. Though I hate being alone but I am used to the loneliness now. Discipline is all I need to pull me through this phase of my life.
My room represents my life and it is messy! Are you willing to help me clean up my "room"? For once I hope I don't have to depend on myself. It is christmas soon and I want my "room" clean for X'mas. I want the sunlight back, I want a new "room"...
From : Darren, currently a few thousand miles away from home...
I would like to introduce you to my room. In my room, you can find dust, bio waste, empty bottles, waste papers, plastic bags, unwashed clothes and many other junks scattered all around the limited area of 22 meter square. For many this represents untidiness, irresponsiblity and even portrays a messy lifestyle. My room, my mess...
The pringles and toblerones on the corner table and the dumb bells laying motionless on the floor defines the 2 aspects of my life. The junk food is the unwanted distractions whereas the dumb bells are the heavy task awaiting me to accomplish. There must be something very wrong when you have many tasks ahead but you felt very relaxed.
Mummy said to me many times, fold your blanket after you wake up. Such small details in your daily routine will ultimately shape your future being. It is a healthy habit called discipline. Living alone, cooking alone, eating alone, working alone, every thing alone. Though I hate being alone but I am used to the loneliness now. Discipline is all I need to pull me through this phase of my life.
My room represents my life and it is messy! Are you willing to help me clean up my "room"? For once I hope I don't have to depend on myself. It is christmas soon and I want my "room" clean for X'mas. I want the sunlight back, I want a new "room"...
From : Darren, currently a few thousand miles away from home...
Thursday, 10 December 2009
Das Leben ist scheiße.
Niemand kann behaupten, dass sein oder ihr Leben ganz am Anfang bis jetzt alles super gelaufen ist. Wir treten immer auf scheiße in unserem Leben und das macht das Leben so eine große scheiße. Egal was für eine scheiße haben wir inzwischen getroffen oder wenn Pech gehabt sogar gegessen, das Leben oder die Scheiße muss weiter gehen.
Das Leben ist scheiße, aber es gibt noch scheiß Freunde wie ich dabei, sodass wir nicht allein gegen die Scheiße/das Leben spielen müssen.
Ich gebe keine Entschuldigung für mein scheiß geschriebene Deutsch, weil die Sprache auch eine ........ ist. Was fehlt noch in den Satz, also die Scheiße fehlt noch, aber du hast doch genug scheiße in dein Leben! Also, last but not least, isst glücklich und scheiß glücklich! Wenn wir das Leben lieben, müssen wir die Scheiße auch lieben!
Life is shit because you talked and done shit to others, felt like shit because you really have tasted the real shit! Damn! Go freakin brush your teeth...
Das Leben ist scheiße, aber es gibt noch scheiß Freunde wie ich dabei, sodass wir nicht allein gegen die Scheiße/das Leben spielen müssen.
Ich gebe keine Entschuldigung für mein scheiß geschriebene Deutsch, weil die Sprache auch eine ........ ist. Was fehlt noch in den Satz, also die Scheiße fehlt noch, aber du hast doch genug scheiße in dein Leben! Also, last but not least, isst glücklich und scheiß glücklich! Wenn wir das Leben lieben, müssen wir die Scheiße auch lieben!
Life is shit because you talked and done shit to others, felt like shit because you really have tasted the real shit! Damn! Go freakin brush your teeth...
和朋友一起走过忧伤的日子
或许是冬天的错吧？我身边的朋友一个接一个都在emo着。我很无奈也感到无助，我自己何尝不是那种人呢？现在从另一个角度看，我还蛮恨那只会怨天尤人的我。我想帮他们，但自己也需要人帮忙啊。23岁了，为什么想东西还是那么不成熟...
有些人借酒消愁，另一些则痛不欲生。我们都要长大，这世界除了爱情，还有亲情和友情。虽说失去任何一个是很痛苦，但是有一些东西是公平的。大家拥有的时间是一样的，是在乎你如何运用它。一天24小时掌握在你手中，与其哭着过，不如笑着过。如果付出努力没有回报，那是因为你一直都钻牛角尖。谁说过努力一定有回报，那没有回报你就干脆什么都不做了吗？正确的态度是付出了，如果还是不行，那得学习承受失败并把它放下，不让它成为你的包袱。
生命不是一个礼物，所以更加不能随便糟蹋它。做人难，人难做，难做人...但是我不觉得死了就一了百了。自寻短见的人，多数都不得善终，往往死后比活着还痛苦。
话说会来，你们如果想喝，我陪你喝。这不是一个好朋友该做的，但是我希望可以陪伴你们一起走过忧伤的日子...一步...一步...走向美好的未来。我不是天生乐观的人，但是我知道每一天只要还有一口气在，一定有机会快快乐乐的过。
很喜欢抄袭tvb的我，送jh，zh和yl一人一个糖莲子，希望你们能苦中有一点甜。
有些人借酒消愁，另一些则痛不欲生。我们都要长大，这世界除了爱情，还有亲情和友情。虽说失去任何一个是很痛苦，但是有一些东西是公平的。大家拥有的时间是一样的，是在乎你如何运用它。一天24小时掌握在你手中，与其哭着过，不如笑着过。如果付出努力没有回报，那是因为你一直都钻牛角尖。谁说过努力一定有回报，那没有回报你就干脆什么都不做了吗？正确的态度是付出了，如果还是不行，那得学习承受失败并把它放下，不让它成为你的包袱。
生命不是一个礼物，所以更加不能随便糟蹋它。做人难，人难做，难做人...但是我不觉得死了就一了百了。自寻短见的人，多数都不得善终，往往死后比活着还痛苦。
话说会来，你们如果想喝，我陪你喝。这不是一个好朋友该做的，但是我希望可以陪伴你们一起走过忧伤的日子...一步...一步...走向美好的未来。我不是天生乐观的人，但是我知道每一天只要还有一口气在，一定有机会快快乐乐的过。
很喜欢抄袭tvb的我，送jh，zh和yl一人一个糖莲子，希望你们能苦中有一点甜。
Tuesday, 1 December 2009
I see the world through your eyes
And it is indeed beautiful. Dad and mum loved you to bits and you are a little princess to your brothers. You are quite the naughty and pretty spoiled lil sis now, no thanks to me wahahaha! You just have to do the same trick and you know I will get you things you want. (from my lil sis's eyes)
The guy in front of you is quite decent ;) abit too shy for his own good and pretty nervous when his sight met yours but he is just a friend. The feel is not quite right though. (miss w from 4 years ago)
The future is still within your grasp and you have to go out and show'em what you are made of. (when I see my reflection on the mirror)
I am in love with the world through the eyes of the girl who is still around the morning after. (from Elliott Smith song say yes)
The guy in front of you is quite decent ;) abit too shy for his own good and pretty nervous when his sight met yours but he is just a friend. The feel is not quite right though. (miss w from 4 years ago)
The future is still within your grasp and you have to go out and show'em what you are made of. (when I see my reflection on the mirror)
I am in love with the world through the eyes of the girl who is still around the morning after. (from Elliott Smith song say yes)
Sunday, 29 November 2009
曾经...
曾经很单纯，不问付出多还是少。现在长大了反而变质了，往往喜欢以小人之心去猜度他人。 我知道这世界是残酷的， 但是如果人人都像我那么小人，试问还有希望可言吗？ 我不知不觉地被改变了...
我的自我批判毛病又发作了，或许处女座的人就是那么喜欢完美，那么喜欢挑剔。 说其他的吧，我很想念我以前的朋友。我望着旧照片和现在的他们比较，心中感到很安慰，因为他们都活得很好呀。 虽然友情没以前那么好了，我相信我们见面时应该还可以闲谈几句吧。 人，要往前望。 没错，要一直的往前望。 但是我也希望是和故友一起往前望。 我相信我最错的是一直以为友情是永在的，不必那么费心去维持。 我几乎在德国的三年日子里，一通电话，一封信，甚至一封简单的sms也没寄过给朋友。 我一厢情愿的任为朋友是不会走掉的。我,真的错了...
我的自我批判毛病又发作了，或许处女座的人就是那么喜欢完美，那么喜欢挑剔。 说其他的吧，我很想念我以前的朋友。我望着旧照片和现在的他们比较，心中感到很安慰，因为他们都活得很好呀。 虽然友情没以前那么好了，我相信我们见面时应该还可以闲谈几句吧。 人，要往前望。 没错，要一直的往前望。 但是我也希望是和故友一起往前望。 我相信我最错的是一直以为友情是永在的，不必那么费心去维持。 我几乎在德国的三年日子里，一通电话，一封信，甚至一封简单的sms也没寄过给朋友。 我一厢情愿的任为朋友是不会走掉的。我,真的错了...
Friday, 27 November 2009
I am nobody, but I am entitled to an opinion
There is a common rule in determining whether you are a likable person or not which is rather simple. When you notice people around you suddenly avoiding you and being rather cold towards you, the signs are there that you have done something wrong which irked the people around you. Of course there is always the possibility that people are jealous of your whatsoever success and therefore went all the way out to boycott you. Such malice should not be tolerated by any means. At the same time, we should always review our ownself before pointing the blame at others. It is always easy and sometimes pleasurable to criticize or poke fun at others but when the roles are reversed how do you feel? Everybody should be held responsible in this situation where both parties are liable to any potential damages caused.
As wrong as you are in criticizing a particular person, it is even more wrong to overreact with violence under provocation. I have a notoriously bad reputation in poking fun at others and I certainly have received my fair share of rebukes. Some call it karma, some said you got it coming! Fair and square, so it seems...Living in this society, you cannot go out and say something hurtful to others and expect the other party to accept it as a joke. That is still not the worse it seems. The most annoying aspect is that many people refuse to pratice the give and take concept. I am sure I am guilty as well but I have always restrained myself not to beg for favours so cheaply. There IS a difference in asking for a helping hand and insisting others to help you. Are you entitled to be angry if others refused you? Who are you? Are you some God or some mighty emperor that other people must entertain your request and demands? I have to learn to say NO but at the same time must accept it graciously when people said NO to me as well.
I am not perfect and will never ever be but I have learned to talk as I see it because even the imperfect and insigficant ones have a right to express their opinions. I am a pot calling the kettle black because the kettle refuse to believe that it is black as well! Do you see the point?
As wrong as you are in criticizing a particular person, it is even more wrong to overreact with violence under provocation. I have a notoriously bad reputation in poking fun at others and I certainly have received my fair share of rebukes. Some call it karma, some said you got it coming! Fair and square, so it seems...Living in this society, you cannot go out and say something hurtful to others and expect the other party to accept it as a joke. That is still not the worse it seems. The most annoying aspect is that many people refuse to pratice the give and take concept. I am sure I am guilty as well but I have always restrained myself not to beg for favours so cheaply. There IS a difference in asking for a helping hand and insisting others to help you. Are you entitled to be angry if others refused you? Who are you? Are you some God or some mighty emperor that other people must entertain your request and demands? I have to learn to say NO but at the same time must accept it graciously when people said NO to me as well.
I am not perfect and will never ever be but I have learned to talk as I see it because even the imperfect and insigficant ones have a right to express their opinions. I am a pot calling the kettle black because the kettle refuse to believe that it is black as well! Do you see the point?
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